Whew! If you haven't seen this you haven't experienced Maya Angelou.
http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2014/08/19/maya-angelou-bill-moyers-facing-evil/
Mostly About My FOO (family of origin), And My Recovery From Them -- "If you know your mother doesn't tell you the truth, don't keep acting like she does." ~ Iyanla Vanzant "If you know that your father has a tendency to not honor his word, don't keep trusting he's going to do what he says he's going to do (just) because he's your father." ~ Iyanla Vanzant