2016 Update: I care more about this blog than I do that "they" can read it, otherwise I'd stop writing it and create a new one. As long as they finally leave me and my little family alone, there should be no problem, even though I requested that they don't read it. Since they have no interest in my writing, I'm probably safe. I hope so hard they will finally respect our wishes of no contact. I care so much about telling the truth and bringing healing. I fought my entire life to bring communication, truth, and healing to my FOO. There's nothing left to fight for so I have given up, at age 59. I can now only bring healing to myself and other survivors through my words. I finally went back to work on my heart-wrenching memoir that I wrote in 2012 that I originally wrote for them as my last Hope of getting my beloved family of origin and relatives back. But, There Are None So Blind As Those Who Will Not See

Friday, September 11, 2015

One Of The Main Problems

Is that my FOO are a bunch of narcissists.
Therefore, they are incapable of hearing anything negative about themselves, no matter how lovingly you try to talk about something that hurt you deeply that they said or did.
They just get defensive and blow you off with more insults.

You really can't win with narcissists.
And they can't change...
And that's the part I need to accept.

I need to just give up.
And let them go.

I don't think even a Miracle can help us.


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